To fit in and stand out–this paradox of both recognizing our uniqueness and wishing to belong, a constant companion on our life journey. A conflict of competing interests we assume we balance successfully. As part of systems, some voluntarily and others not, we accept being part of something larger than ourselves requires some sacrifice. We argue we are free-thinking, flexible, and adaptable, with an uncanny ability to change. That we update our beliefs through new information. In control, even when bombarded by opinions, we stay focused, hold fast, living our philosophy of living to the fullest. But do we? Is this an accurate picture? It’s uncomfortable to consider it might not be.
History is full of rebels. They pushed boundaries, overcame impossible situations, discovered magical and unthinkable solutions. We admire them because rebels challenged a status quo. What we don’t consider is that they succeeded because they challenged their own.
In this quick read, we examine how we got to where we are now—why we stay there—and how to build a list of contrary rebel ideas to fully embrace our unique philosophy of living.
